Wednesday, September 10, 2008

SIT DOWN AND LEARN MY LINGO....




SO YEAH I WAS WONDERING,MO-BARZ AND ME WERE HAVIN THIS TALK LAST NIGHT CUZ WE WERE DEBATING ABOUT A PERSON WE KNO, AND COULDNT REALLY COME TO AN AGREEMENT ON THIS... I JUST WANTED TO KNO EVERYONES OPINION ON THIS.... LETS SAY ITS A GUY/GIRL RIGHT AND THEY HAVE NO SPOUSE, THEY ARE NOT COMMITTED TO ANYONE, AND THEY GIVE MAD PEOPLE THEIR NUMBER, THEY GO HANG OUT WITH THEM SOME MAY EVEN STAY OVER AT THAT PERSONS HOUSE BUT NOTHIN MORE THAN A LITTLE KISSIN & TOUCHIN. AT THE SAME TIME THO THEY DO IT WITH NUMEROUS PEOPLE, BUT NEVER "SEX"... WHAT WOULD U CATEGORIZE THAT PERSON AS.....


OKAY SO YEAH I JUS WANNA GO LIGHT 2DAY....I WANNA GET YOU GUYS FAMILIAR WITH MY SLANG 2DAY CUZ I WILL BE USING IT AND IF UR GONNA HANG WITH TEYANA U HAVE TO GET THIS DOWN PACT...

""FLOW""--MALE OR FEMALE OPTIONS...LOL...THAT JUS SUMS IT UP...

""MY GKO""--SORTA LIKE WHASSUP HOMIE, OR WHATS GOIN ON PLAYA, BUT REPLACE IT WITH MY "GKO"...LOL

""TALK MY NIGGA""--SAY SOMEONE IS TELLIN U A STORY AND IT SOUNDS A LITTLE FISHY OR UNTRUE, OR LETS SAY SOMEONE SAYS "YO ELVIS IS REALLY ALIVE", U RESPOND IN A SOMEWHAT AGGRESIVE VOICE AND SAY "TALK MY NIGGA"...IT EVEN WORKS WITH EVERYDAY THINGS IF U WAKE UP IN THE MORNIN AND WALK PASS THE BATHROOM AND SEE YA LIL SIS BRUSHIN HER TEETH U SAY.."BRUSH YA TEETH MY NIGGA"...LOL..BELIEVE ME ITS GET FUNNY ONCE U HAVE IT DOWN PACT, U CAN REPLACE NIGGA WITH MY GKO IF U CHOOSE, ITS JUS THAT IT STARTED OFF LIKE THAT...LOL

JUS GET THESE 3 DOWN PACT AND UR IN!!....LOL..GOTTA SUPER BUSY DAY TODAY IMA SEE U GUYS 2MORROW EARLY...OH YEAH PLEASE GIMMIE UR FEED BACK ON THAT QUESTION....IMA POST LIKE BEST 2 I FEEL ARE SUPER "ACCURATE" COMMENTS IN MY BLOG 2MORROW..LOVE YOU GUYS...

29 comments:

Nikita said...

I would call that a friend with perks. Yall not together so both are free to see other and mess with other people but you know when you are with that person its just yall!

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ariana. said...
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ariana. said...

I wouldn't judge that person as a slut or nothin but someone who hasn't been scared to lose anybody yet, chu know? kinda curious and might think that they can get who ever they want...they probably wont know what they had till its gone ya digg...

Penelope M. Johnson said...

LMAO@ur lingo.
But to answer your question, there's nothing wrong with meeting people and exchanging numbers and/or chilling wit them. Anyone who does should be called....social.LOL But when you're inviting ppl (like a bunch of different ppl) to your house and "kissing and touching" but nothing more...then you're what I call a "smutbag tease"(Sorry if thats too harsh...I'm a very blunt person). If a girl goes around letting dudes come to the crib and "mess around" even if they dont have sex, she's still gonna get the reputation of a smut. You can say what that you're not a smut cuz you're not having sex but....if from the outside it looks like you're doing what smuts do...then people are gonna let their imagination tel the rest of the story and ignore anything else you say. Plus all dudes really want is the POSSIBILITY of "busting" and once you let them go to first base there is no doubt in their mind that they will get it sooner or later. But at the same time she's a tease cuz she's not doing what they really want. I cant speak from a male's perspective so I'm just gonna leave it at that..

(P.S- When I say you I don't mean YOU personally...I'm just speaking in general)

abeautifuldisaster said...

I WOULD CONSIDER THAT PERSON TO BE EXTREMELY FLIRTATIOUS AND ITS ALL IN FUN AFTER ALL THEIR SINGLE ..BUT ITS KINDA SLUTTY BECAUSE WHY WOULD U WANNA KISS AND TOUCH ON MULTIPLE PEOPLE WHEN THERE DOIN THE SAME THING WITH OTHER MULTIPLE PEOPLE..U CAN GET MONO SOO ITS NOT COOL....WHERE IM FROM WE SAY THEIR CAKE ICIN BECAUSE THERE HAVIN THERE CAKE AND EATIN IT TOO

Ho0di3 said...

good thing u explain my gko cuz i was stumbed wen u said it the other day about Mccain's vice pres. but ne way everything else is drilled 2 da noggin, but the question i think slut might be a tad harsh for this person free spirited mos def have there share of fun mos def aint nothin wrong wit ya dudes wen ya single cuz i tell ya i miss catchin the math on the streets wen i see a cutie here nd there nd as for dates wit these multiple dudes i dont see issues with that either ur not attached 2 ne one ur single now as for takin it bac 2 the crib nd playin the keith sweat nd makin out lol wit multiple dudes everyother day that not 2 cool dudes lik 2 lie nd say it went pass feelin on dem tiggle bitties nd them u gotta man handle a nigga nd as many others have put it u start 2 develop a name 4 urself even though u didnt hit 3rd base wit thes dudes

simply mesha said...

i think if u are a female ur a slut bc its not classy nor lady like to be foolin around wit different niggas even tho ur not having sex wit them.."them" that even sound like a hoe..u should only be messing with one and it dont even have to be a seious commitment. now for a guy to do that its normal, so play on pimpin lol. it aint right but thats the fact of the matter

cjballa808 said...

really that person is just flirtatious...they dont really know what they want...they just wanna have fun and live their life to the fullest....they're just exploring all the options they can and experiencing....there shouldnt be any judgement of that person....just curious of ther surroundings....

Sakeena said...

I say if you guys are open with everything then it should be cool. But once u take it past that "we only chillin" stage.. Things get funny, different feelings come up. So just remember once sex becomes involved it WILL never be the same. No matter how much you tell yourself it will ...

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Sk8er Gurl of S.Kz said...

In the girl\boy mind they like yea im a "BEAST" cuz I got niggaz\chicks on deck n dats cool...But people on da out side look'n n will say dey kinda "Ratchett"...but I still look at dem as a beast cuz dey single n can do wat dey wanna do....

schrody say what? said...

I think It honestly Is all about what a person Is actually saying. Touching && kissing now a days really don't mean shit. If this person Is telling another things that make them feel special, && or make them feel like they could be taking kissing&&touching to a more mature level of intimacy, when they know that ain't happening, that's wrong. I would label that person as just someone insecure about themselves because they are un-able to whole heartedly dedicate themselves to one person. There's a difference between just having fun, && leading people on just because your scared of commitment. o_0.

Simp said...

AIGHT TEYANA
LETS SEE KISS AND TOUCH ..... NO SEX.. DIFFERENT PEOPLE
IT SOUNDS LIKE DIS GIRL IS JUST TRYNNA SEE WAT SHE CAN GET OUTTA NIGGA B4 DA BIG WAM BAM OR SHE JUST SIMPLY CRUSHES ALOT!!! AND DATS UNDERSTANDABLE MOST PEOPLE OUR AGE CANT JUST BE TIED DOWN TO ONE PERSON UNLESS DEY FEEL DAT ONE PERSON IS "THE ONE" BUT I DONT THINK SHE A SLUT OR ANYTHING LIKE DAT SHE JUST CRUSH ALOT AND SHE MUST LOOK GOOD FOR A NIGGA TO BE KISSIN ALL ON HER.. 4 REAL IN DA CHI IF U PUT YO LIPS ON A GIRL DAT LOOKS UGLY... LOL!!... PREPARE TO GET YO ASS HEATED LOL!! BUT YEA I GOTTA KNO DA GIRL TO REALLY TELL..

BUT LOOK ON YO MYSPACE TEYANA U NEED TO DELETE DAT DUDE WIT HIS MUSIC ON YA COMMENTS... ITS MESSIN YA PAGE UP

Carmen Sandiego said...

I would call the person SCANDALOUS!! Of course whenever a female does somethin like that, she gets labeled a ho or whatever, but when a dude does it, it's supposed to be OK. Actually no it's not, cuz he's a ho too, and that ain't cute! LOL. I know a lot of ppl are sayin that these cats are young and just livin life to the fullest and whatnot. Aight then, but in the end these cats are gonna be livin life to the lonely, cuz they gonna go thru all these guys/girls, and when they DO actually wanna settle down, all the good ones are gonna be gone, cuz ain't nobody tryin to sit around and wait on a player to change. That's just my opinion.

Deon Jatu said...

Well TT me being me i would just say the person is very flirty, not a hoe or anything because he/she aint having sex. But as far as staying the night at the houses i really wouldnt get down with that because now a days people just take what aint theres if you know what i mean.

But yeah thats about it "My GKO" Lol.

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Yoshi Progetto said...

well.
in society this young lady will be (without a doubt) entitled a "slut" and in the name of bay slang a "bop"

only because well only part we witness of it all is that she's jumping at the chance with numerous fellahs and even takes them home from time to time.

"uugggh she nasty" is what we are thinking in her head.

so yes. we'll look at her as a slut or what not.
but
in actuality, she's only dating.
dating is simply getting to know numerous of people at a time until you find someone that you want to DATE.


but.im just saying. lol

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Sophia said...

I wouldn't classify that person as anything. Everyone is different; we all have different views, different beliefs, different ways of life. We all have our sexual preferences, who is anyone to put a label on that? See me, I've always been different. I don't see sex as something that's really special, something that's any different from kissing. Why is it so sacred? Why are those parts of our bodies so hidden, so taboo? A lot of people don't agree with the way I think, but that doesn't change my feelings. If a girl wants to invite guys over and wants to talk to them, let her do it. It's her life, no one else's. We shouldn't be categorized, we should live life the way each of us want to do so. You can't put a label on life, it's your own. I would never call a girl a slut, and your number of partners doesn't reflect you as a person. As long as you're clean and your partners are, what's the real problem?

maybaby5112010 said...

i would called it a friend who has friends with a lots of benefits or swigers cuz dats all dey do jus wit out da sex part. Now in other cases females are called hoes sluts tramps for wat dey do n males r either called man whoes or whatever else but u give ya number 2 ppl wit out any physical contact thats called friends or may b socializin wit ya feel me dats jus me holla bac

TEDDII BAïR said...

ima need u not 2 be wakin up b4 jesus..at 6 sumthin in tha morin!!..lol jk.
haha lingo is funny kool tho..
but watch this lil' yungin he hood!!..lol
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tell me wat u think..

Beautyishername said...

Well I would say that person is very loose. I mean how u know if they aint having sex with these people? Even if they aint having sex with all of em. I know they doin sum of em. So I would say they a hoe. That aint a good look. Aint nobody gone wanna wife somebody like that.

but on anotha note imma cuff ya lingo. lol.

jaztwo3 said...

he or she seems like a cracker short of a picnic if you ask me. I mean why they doing that when they KNOW no matter how much they deny it (and even if they didn't do it) everyone thinks they DO have sex everytime.

no jokes, thats what i think. they should have a lil more respect for themselves i think then they wouldn't have people thinkin that way.

p.s gimme some white girl slang plllz T! lol and i ain't talking about 'yo ma wigga! sup?' lol

TavyDay said...

side bar: you never specified a gender or actually said it was you; however, everyone seems to think female/teyana. curious much?

so dig it. kissing and touching with multiple ppl, but no sex only means this person is considering.

the hold out doesn't make him/her a tease, just selective. being able to kiss & touch brings about feelings he/she may be curious about so their taking the PG road.

thinking about the next step, but not really ready. simply from wanting to protect his/her rep, picking the mvp or just exploring intimacy and enjoying the fact that they're adored and can mack who they want.

bringing them to the crib in some cases could be be looked at negatively, but going to a hotel looks worse. if he/she is private and the most secure place is at home, by all mean, keep it in the crib!

spending the night? sounds lonely for company!

cautionary:
afew kiss
most kiss&tell
some kiss&tell lies

Tiana_Orig>kid doll said...

i would say that person is mad curious but on the other hand i dont think that is a good look cause i mean what nigga would wanna wife that...she def wouldnt be a lady cause that ish is definately not classy.....There is nothing wrong with giving ya # out and hanging out but it all just goes back to that "MAIN FLOW" ..you only take one home to get the goods ya feel me.

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Tiana

Star said...
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Star said...

I won't call this boy/girl a slut because thats such a bad name. She or he may not be having sex but,I think its nasty for a boy or girl to let different boys/girls touch them, kiss them and not knowing where there hands or mouth been. How do ya'll know if this person aint doing more than just kissing and touching? Kissing and touching can lead to sex. Don't doubt it. He or she is doing some other things. This person must be grown and out their folks house if their having different boys/girls staying at their house.

Off subject but today on Tyra, they had darkskin and brownskin woman of color bleaching their's and their childrens skin so they can be lighter self hatred horrible. Thats what happened to Mike Jackson.

LOVE

SpiFFSter said...

Well...
In my opinion...
That person seems insecure and a hoe-ish... Sleeping with someone new (even if it aint sex) means that they probably get bored real easily and needs ATTENTION or that they have no respect for themselves and just go with the flow...or maybe both...
This topic seems as if the person is being intimate with other people and too many people at one time. Sorry Teyana That is HOE!!!
Intimacy is not only sex... Kissing and touching is different when you at the club and you just messing around once in a while.... but when you do it all the time....you are giving off the vibe of being TOO DAMN LOOSE... You house is you comfort zone ....Everyone and anyone should not be all in and out of it....LOOSE!!!Sorry!

Mz.imSOLEfli said...

They doin da most wit out doin da most...

Its basically friends wit limited benefits..lol but when its wit several people u ain't nuthin but a TOSS-UP...smh

Havin cake sessions fa real...where I'm from I'd say that they a TOSS-UP(person that gets around...doin too much wit like erybody yo teasin included). No way in hell I believe if they spendin da night someone ain't gettin smashes wit dat kissing n touching action come onn...specially if they been sexually active b4

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LonChair said...

I would say that person is trying to fill something in their life. They may look for attention there because they know they can get it. It makes them feel a sense of need from other people. Or, it could be because they don't know what they want in a relationship. The first thing that comes to mind is "slut" or "whore". People like to say God is the only one who can judge. I don't buy that at all. Anyone can judge anyone, but they don't matter. The only one that matters is God. You're free to do whatever you want with your life & your body. Just know that according to society you might be a "playa" or a "whore" depending on which sex you are. Society definitely has a double standard.

KiD JAY said...

i know im late but i soooo gotta hit this topic up HARLEMMM! lol. that guy/girl is a straight up...."SHONE"!! lmfao. Its like,, being a creeper/whore bag, but in a good way. Im from South Florida(MIAMI), and on that side of town, shawtys are happy to be called a shone, like they praise it. Dudes too, they just laugh about it, but they know whats up. Down there, a shone is a good thing. You cant call a female a hoe, you get fussed out, but you go ahead and call her a shone, ::shaking my head:: its a different story. I mean,, -its sad!! They turned the whole thing that use to be bad, GOOD!! A -shone- doesn't neccesarily mean there sleep together, but once you give them that time of the day, you've been added to thier shone list, and it'll eventually get there. It takes time, its a process. Buttt,, yeahh harlem!!
ill appreciate it if you hit me up, and tell me what you think.

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Beans A.K.A. BackPack Kid said...

I wouldn't really judge because maybe that don't want a relationship they just wanna kick it.I would call that person my "slim" here that means like somebody you kick it with maybe sex but it's not official.

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