BEAUTY MAYBE TRULY WITH IN..BUT IS IT WRONG FOR US TO WANT IT TO COME ON THE OUTSIDE SOMETIMES???
OH MY GOODNESS THE FEEDBACK FROM THAT QUESTION WAS SO OFF THE RADAR I COULDNT EVEN DECIDE WHICH TWO COMMENTS TO PUT UP. I SEE THAT QUESTION THAT I ASKED, AND PEOPLE WHO DO THAT IN A WHOLE DIFFERENT LIGHT IN MANY WAYS.. FOR NOW ON YOU GUYS ARE MY "ONLINE CONSULTANTS"..LOL, AND IM GOIN TO READ OVER THOSE COMMENTS AGAIN AND PUT UP THE 2 I FEEL ARE THE MOST INFORMATIVE. WAT WAS SAID IN SOME OF THOSE COMMENTS WERE VERY INFORMATIVE, BUT MORE SO I WAS EXPECTIN PEOPLE TO REPLY WITH THINGS LIKE; "OH THAT PERSON IS A HOE", BUT U GUYS REALLY BROKE IT DOWN AND THAT GOES TO SHOW PEOPLE OUR AGE ARE WAY AHEAD OF OUR TIME. U GUYS WERE SO EFFECTIVE IN YOUR ANSWER I HAVE ANOTHER QUESTION TO ASK, A GENERAL QUESTION THAT SO MANY MALES/FEMALES DEAL WITH ON A DAILY BASIS...
INSECURITY IS A BIG PROBLEM ESPECIALLY AMONGEST PEOPLE IN THEIR ADOLESCENTS. I TRY TO MAKE MO-BARZ UNDERSTAND ALL THE TIME THAT JUS CUZ U HAVE THE HOT BODY WITH THE PRETTY FACE, AND THE FULL HAIR, OR NICE EYES DOESNT MEAN THAT UR LIVIN THE PERFECT LIFE. PEOPLE ARE REALLY GOIN THRU IT, AND ALOT OF THE TIME THE PROBLEMS ARENT PHYSICAL. ALOT OF PEOPLE ARE MENTALLY OFF BALANCE, SOME FEEL THAT HIS OR HER BEAUTY IS A CURSE BECAUE THEY ARE HELD ON A HIGHER PLATEAU, AND SOCIETY MAKES PEOPLE FEEL THAT WHEN U HAVE A CERTAIN LOOK U OFF THE BACK ARE SUPPOSE TO DO CERTAIN THINGS. PRESSURE WEATHER PEER, OR GENERAL BREEDS INSECURITY BECAUSE U WONDER IF U WILL BE ABLE TO DO IT, OR IF U HAVE WAT IT TAKES TO CUT THE MUSTARD.
ITS SO HARD TO OVER COME IT ESPECIALLY IF IT HAS BEEN A PART OF IT FOR UR WHOLE LIFE WEATHER U NOTICED SUMTHIN U BEEN INSECURE ABOUT SINCE U WERE LITTLE, OR PEOPLE MADE U FEEL THAT WAY ALL UR LIFE.. THEN WHEN PEOPLE LIKE FAMILY, AND FRIENDS SAY OH UR "BEAUTIFUL" U APPRECIATE IT BUT UR MIND CANT HELP BUT TO KNO THAT EVEN THO THEY MEAN IT, ITS STILL COMIN FROM PEOPLE WHO KNO AND LOVE YOU SO ALTHOUGH U APRPRECIATE IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF UR HEART, ITS NOT AS EFFECTIVE.
SO I ASK TO ANYONE READING THIS, HOW CAN ONE OVERCOME A LIFETIME OF INSECURITIES OF "THEMSELVES" WEATHER PHYSICAL, OR MENTAL? AND MAKE THEMSELVES SEE THAT
"HEY IM A BEAUTIFUL PERSON, IM DOPE, AND I AM CONFIDENT ENUFF TO LET MYSELF KNO THAT EVERY CHANCE I GET WITHOUT BEIN LOOKED AT AS CONCEITED, OR COCKY"!!!
