Monday, September 8, 2008

TRUE FRIENDS!! HOW MANY OF US HAVE THEM??



THIS PIC...I CANT STAND IT...BUT ITS POSTED.LOL

WOW!!THATS CRAZY!! FRIENDS I DONT KNO ABOUT EVERYONE ELSE BUT I TAKE MINES SERIOUSLY.. A WEAKNESS I HAVE IS THAT LIKE I MAKE FRIENDS QUICK LIKE IF I JUS MEET U THAT DAY I WILL MAKE U FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND THE REST OF US I'LL SPEND THE DAY MAKIN SURE U DONT FEEL LEFT OUT. NOW BEIN IN THE POSITION THAT I AM IN I HAVE TO BE WEARY OF WHO I MEET AND POLITIC WITH, BECAUSE EVERYONE'S MISSION ISN'T TO BE YOU FRIEND.
I HAVE A CIRCLE OF FRIENDS LIKE AN OFFICIAL CIRCLE. IF YOU GO TO MO-BARZ PAGE AND LOOK AT HIS PICS WWW.MYSPACE.COM/MOBARS U WILL SEE A PHOTO ALBUM TITLED "MY CIRCLE" OR SUMTHIN LIKE THAT AND THOSE R THE PEOPLE I DEAL WITH ON A REGULAR BASIS. I TREAT FRIENDSHIPS AS IF IT WAS A MARRIAGE, I AM A VERY LOYAL PERSON. I DONT EVEN KNO HOW TO SAY THE WORD "NO"..LOL..THEY NEED IT AND I GOT IT TO GIVE, ITS THEIRS.. ITS EVEN MORE EASIER FOR ME TO GIVE TO THEM BECAUSE THEY GIVE TO ME SO FREELY. MO-BARZ HE CONTROLS THE CIRCLE HE MAKES SURE EVERYONE IS ON POINT HE'S LIKE A 24 HOUR GUARD HE DOESNT LET ANYONE THATS OUTSIDE THE CIRCLE IN, MEANING PEOPLE LIKE TO GET IN AND MESS THINGS UP OUT OF ENVY CUZ SOME PEOPLE JUST CANT STAND A GOOD FRIENDSHIP THEY EITHER SAY IGNORANT THINGS LIKE "WHEN THEY STARTED HANGING OUT?", "OH THEY DATING"
"OR THEY JUST AROUND FOR THIS AND THAT". ALL THAT STUFF HAPPENS WHEN U ON THE COME UP AND THAT REFERS TO WHAT I WAS TALKIN ABOUT YESTERDAY WITH THE HATERS,
(AND THE COMENTS WERE AMAZING YESTERDAY IM BLOGGIN WITH SOME DOPE ASS INTELLIGENT PEOPLE...)...LOL!!
MY FRIENDS KEEP ME SANE. I HAVE A 2PAC TEMPER AT TIMES LIKE CUZ PEOPLE ALWAYS TRY TO PLAY ME AND COME AT ME, AND I AINT HAVIN IT. YOU HAVE TO FIND YOU THAT
"ONE FRIEND" IT DOESNT HAVE TO BE A CIRCLE, WE HAVE A CIRCLE CUZ WE ALL HAVE A MISSION, SOME DOING ENTERTAINMENT, STYLIN, SCHOOL, AND SOME R JUS HAPPY WITH THE 9 TO 5. MY FRIENDS DONT WAIT ON ME THEY GET OUT THERE AND MAKE MOVES, WE ALL TRYIN TO EAT OUT HERE BABY...LOL..SEE HOW LOYAL THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU ARE, ASK THEM QUESTIONS SEE HOW FAR THEY WOULD GO WHEN IT COMES TO BEIN THAT TRUE FRIEND. DO EVERYTHING UR SUPPOSE TO DO AS A GREAT FRIEND, IF THEY DONT MEASURE UP TO YOUR LEVEL OF LOYALTY & LOVE, WELL U KNO WAT U GOTTA DO! ALL THAT THIS IS MY "ASSOCIATE" MAN 4GET ALL OF THAT.. ITS EITHER YOUR FRIEND OR NOT!! MATTER OF FACT WHEN U COMMENT BAC PLEASE BREAK THAT DOWN TO ME BECAUSE ALOT OF THING PEOPLE DO WITH ASSOCIATES THEY DO WITH FRIENDS, UNLESS YOU LITERALLY SAYIN HI AND BY AND NOT STOPPIN FOR ANYTHING.. PEOPLE IN THE HOOD BEEN GETTIN TO CLASSY LATELY."THATS MY ASSOCIATE"...LMAO..JUS TEASIN.. ITS PEOPLE IN THIS INDUSTRY WITH MILLIONS BUT THEY LONELY!! NO FAMILY, NO FRIENDS THEY ALL MESSED UP IN THE HEAD. IM TRYIN TO LIVE MINES UP WITH MY FAMILY & CLOSEST FRIENDS. I WANNA REFER BACK TO WHEN I SAID WHEN GOD CALLS YA # THATS IT!! YOU CANT HAVE A ARMORED TRUCK FOLLOWING YOUR CASKET DOWN THE STREET!! YOU CANT TAKE THAT MONEY WITH YOU, LIVE IT UP, BUT DO IT WITH LOVING, HONEST, GOD FEARING PEOPLE THAT YOU KNOW FOR A FACT U CAN SAY "HEY THATS MY FRIEND"!! I LOVE YOU GUYS SEE U IN THE MORNIN!!!!

35 comments:

Vannah Banana said...

Round of Applause! (Tear Tear!) I couldnt have said it better! I think i have a dot not even a circle! lmao

runwaytyp3 said...

Omg this is so true. I wish I had friends that were as loyal as me. People always come at you wrong when they see someone different because they dont know how to be open to new things. Keep doing your thing and keep your TRUE friends close. Watch out for the friends that are really just groupies.

missilia24 said...

First of all let me say that I have nothing but the upmost respect for ya girl. I'm proud of you and the accomplishments you have achieved in life and know that God has a lot more in store for you....NOW...many people don't have that "true circle" of people that they know would do ANYTHING for them when it came down to it. I'm also the type of person who can't say no at times...its embedded in me to be generous and ride for my ppl. I'm the type of person that if u needed it and it was my last, no problem. Unfortunately we have the haters and the selfish people who like to take advantage of you. Yes of course, i have the hidden temper that comes out on occassions like these, especially when these "people" are trying to come in my cirlce and mess things up. I'm really over protective of my circle and just as i can make u feel comfortable around me, i can also make u feel like shit! lol...right now i dont have a circle, only because i may have my guard up and feel as tho there aint no gd ppl left out there..i respect that u have that type of circle..real talk...its hard to come by...Having a circle of true friends....man..its a blessing...LOYALTY baby..its a gd thing to have...im just not able to get that ma. u know?

Simp said...

AIGHT TEYANA
DA TERM ASSOCIATE IS USED ALOT IN DA CHI
ITS REALLY WEN U MEET A PERSON THROUGH SOMEBODY LIKE A FRIEND OR SOMETHIN AND THEY SEEM COOL BUT U DONT REALLY KNOW HOW COOL YET BECUZ U HAVENT KNOWN EM DAT LONG
SO UR REALLY JUST ON WAS UP HI AND BYE TERMS WIT EM UNTIL YALL START HANGIN OUT MORE AND GETTIN TO BECOME CLOSER ... BUT UNTIL DEN!!!
UR AN ASSOCIATE!!! LOL

blatino4459 said...

I SAW YOU AT THE AFTER PARTY AT FASHION ROCKS YOU GAVE ME A HUG YOUR SO DOPE

geekazoid24 said...

i LOVE UR BLOGS SO MUCH BECAUSE U INSPIRE ME ALOT AND SO MUCH THAT I MADE MY OWN BUT ITS UNDER CONSTRUCTION

billionheiress said...

thats funny...i mean a circle of friends and all...I never could find a group of people hat I could consistently keep around and be friends with. I guess I am a workaholic and people don't like that...i know you must be busy and you still have time to kick it, i guess i should add that to my list of things to work on...anyway dopish blog

Anoname said...

Wow qirl you the best like REALLY! I don't seperate people in friends or associates; cause to me its either your my friend or not. Like lately I moved from brooklyn to Ga [ for like 3 yrs then back to Brooklyn ] when I left Brooklyn I stayed tryna keep in contact with my friends & it seemed like they wasn't with it & I was friends with them for yearssssss. Then I came to Ga & when my mom dipped back to NY; there was never a day when I didn't hear from my GA friends. I think friendship is based solely on loyalty [like u said] an associate can't be loyal to you. Cause most of the times an associate smiles in your face & frowns behind your back! Much ♥
Prettyeverpropa.blogspot.com

Anoname said...

Wow qirl you the best like REALLY! I don't seperate people in friends or associates; cause to me its either your my friend or not. Like lately I moved from brooklyn to Ga [ for like 3 yrs then back to Brooklyn ] when I left Brooklyn I stayed tryna keep in contact with my friends & it seemed like they wasn't with it & I was friends with them for yearssssss. Then I came to Ga & when my mom dipped back to NY; there was never a day when I didn't hear from my GA friends. I think friendship is based solely on loyalty [like u said] an associate can't be loyal to you. Cause most of the times an associate smiles in your face & frowns behind your back! Much ♥
Prettyeverpropa.blogspot.com

TavyDay said...

i have ONE friend! use to have a circle that was more like a U than anything. it's crazy cuz i met these chicks in college and most of my friends were 5 yrs or more older than me; however, i was always the leader.

they called me for boyfriend issues, parenting, life, u name it. me, i dealt with my own issues cuz on the real, i just didn't trust that they could handle me with as much care.

naw, i can't say no if your my peoples, but the courtesy was never returned. i was always their friend but they were never mine.

in the past six months, i cut everybody off! don't matter if i've known you since i was 16 cuz we're grown now. i'm still growing while chicks are stagnant, excepting gold in exchange for shit. and dig it, if a person has low self esteem and they don't love themselves, chances are, they don't love you. don't confuse love with admiration that will eventually turn into jealousy.

as far as true friends go, i'm one & done. anyone else is an accessory... if they go good with my shoes (my business) then i'm wearing 'em. when the shoes come off (business is done)so do they. a shame i gotta be that way, but i'm the only one that's going to look out for me.

peace

Speak To Me said...

I AGREE WITH YOU, TRUE FRIENSHIPS ARE LIKE RELATIONSHIPS. FOR ME I DON'T HAVE A FULL CIRCLE OF CLOSE FRIENDS LIKE YOU BUT INSTEAD I HAVE A SEMI CIRCLE (LOL). I LOVE MY FRIENDS DEARLY AND I REALLY DON'T USE THAT WORD LOOSELY BECAUSE THE WORD FRIENDSHIP MEANS A LOT TO ME. WHEN YOU SAY THE WORD FRIEND, TO ME IT MEANS SOMEONE WHO KNOWS YOUR FIRST, MIDDLE AND LAST NAME, THEY KNOW YOUR FAVORITE COLOR, FAVORITE MOVIE, WHAT'S YOUR LIKES OR DISLIKES, GET INTO BIG DISAGREEMENTS WITH ONE ANOTHER AND THEN GO ON WITH LIFE LIKE NOTHING EVEN HAPPENED, THEY KNOW EVERY SINGLE MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY, THEY KNOW YOUR MOTHER SIDE AS WELL AS YOUR FATHER SIDE, THEY COME TO SPECIAL FAMILY EVENTS WITH YOU SUCH AS WEDDINGS, BABYSHOWERS AND EVEN FAMILY REUNIONS, THEY KNOW YOUR DEEPEST DARKEST SECRETS, THEY KNOW YOUR BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND AND HIS/HER FAMILY, THEY EVEN KNOW WHO WAS YOUR FIRST, YOUR TRUE LOVES AND THEY EVEN COVER FOR YOU IF YOU ASKED THEM TO, THEY GIVE UP THERE LAST JUST AND DON'T EVEN ASK FOR ANYTHING IN RETURN BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOUR GOING TO HAVE THERE BACK IF THEY ARE DOWN, THEY KNOW WHAT YOUR THINKING BEFORE YOU EVEN SPEAK AND WHEN YOU TALKING CRAZY AND A SENTENCE DOESN'T MAKE SINCE AND EVERYONE IS LOOKING LIKE WHAT SHE/HE JSUT SAID, YOUR TRUE FRIEND LAUGHS BECAUSE IN SOME WEIRD SINCE YOUR SPEAK THE SAME LANGUAGE AND SHE/HE UNDERSTANDS EVERY SINGLE WORD THAT CAME OUT YOUR MOUTH BECAUSE THE CONNECTION BETWEEN YOUR IS JUST THAT CL0SE.

NOW ON THE OTHER HAND I HAVE A LOT OF ASSOCIATES AND YOU ASKED WHAT DOES THAT WORD REALLY MEAN. WELL TO ME AN ASSOCIATE IS SOMEONE THAT YOU CAN CHILL WITH BUT YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A BOND WITH LIKE A FRIEND BECAUSE THEY CAN'T COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND THEM OR THAT CAN'T UNDERTSAND YOU FULLY. FOR EXAMPLE I HAVE DIFFERENT LEVELS OF ASSOCIATES. I HAVE MY SCHOOL ASSOCIATES, THE ONLY THING WE HAVE IN COMMON IS COMPLETING CLASS AND WE BOTH NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO BUT ONCE CLASS IS OVER WE DON'T HAVE ANYTHING ELSE IN COMMON TO TALK ABOUT. I ALSO HAVE ASSOCIATES THAT I LIKE TO GO SHOPPING WITH OR TALK ABOUT FASHION BECAUSE WE SHARE THE SAME PASSION BUT OTHER THEN THAT WE DON'T HAVE ANYTHING ELSE TO TALK ABOUT. SO I GUESS THAT IS WHAT AN ASSOCIATE IS SOMEONE WHO GETS 10% OF YOU BUT CAN'T REALLY GET YOU BECAUSE THEY CAN'T UNLOCK THE OTHER 90% OF YOU, IF THAT MAKES SINCE.

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Leeeeeeee said...

YOUR FRIENDS ARE BLESSED TO HAVE YOU.
LOYALTY IS HARD TO FIND THESE DAYS.

IM KIND OF THE SAME WAY
BUT I HAD TO PUT MY GUARD UP BECAUSE PEOPLE TAKE ADVANTAGE QUICKLY.
SOON AS THEY KNOW THAT YOU'LL GIVE YOUR LAST.. THEY'LL TAKE IT FROM YOU WITH NO DISREGARDS TO YOUR FEELINGS AFTER.

BEIN IN YOUR SPOTLIGHT IT WILL DEFINITELY BE HARD TO TELL WHOS WHO.. BUT YOU'VE GOT YOUR CIRCLE AND THATS PEACE.

-LOVE&BLESSINGS

Deric said...

I find it funny Im reading a blog about the same exact things that have been going on my head since day 1 of me moving here to the city. Its good to know there are other people out there that actually care enough to put their thought into this issue and to be open about it.

Know who your true friends are before you got to where you are today. I am the closest to these people and always will be. It's great to make friends out here in this city and industry, there are SOO many different types of personalities out there and things to learn from people. When you meet these people you also will meet friends through them and obviously everyone kind of networks through eachother.

EVERYTHING about that sounds great!! But there is also a downside to that.... Not everyone is who you think they are. I have found out just as Im sure you have alot of people are out here from themselves. Who and how can they use the people they meet to help benefit themselves. When I mean "benefit" I mean it in a way when both people don't both mutually benefit in a way.

This is how I have managed to live great social life without having to reject meeting people (Maybe you have tried this or haven't but worth the advice to help) I love to meet new people everyday. That will always happen, living in NYC its almost impossible to not do that and if you don't like it this probably isnt your city. I put my friends in different categories in my mind. I seperate my friends from the ones who ask alot of "favors" and the ones who don't ask. I also have a section for the ones that are out with you just to be with you in public. I have another one for those who offer "ME" favors and don't ask anything in return. I also have the ones that are just name droppers and seem to not have much of a personality, they just find anyway possibly to make it to the top doing that instead of getting on the grind like the rest of us. I could go on for quite awhile about this but Ill save a little space in your blog lol, if we see eachother out maybe well talk about this more in person but hope any of this helped!! :)

Rollz Royce Nique said...

THE "WOULD BE" FIRST PARAGRAPH...U SHOULD HAVE PHARRELL PUT THE WHOLE THING ONNA BBC T-SHIRT...TRUE WORDS...EXTREMELY TRUE WORDS

TalithaFo said...

T your blessed. Keep shining your light, your really ministering to kids out there in an incredible way. Stay positive, prayerful and persistant. And appreciate the fact that you can live your dreams with those that genuinely care around you. Its great thing that many people have to do without.

Sk8er Gurl of S.Kz said...

dats cool but i dnt really have 2 many friends im cool wit a few people my only friends r my sustaz...people scan so u gotta watch!!!

Chanel said...

ur so right. friendships should definitely be kept like relationships. i have a bunch of friends but a distinct group in which we allow ppl to join in but at the end of the day, we're the trio.
i don't do the whole associates thing becuz honestly there is no1 i only say hi and bye to unless we just dont have the time to talk. but anyways, love the bloggg.
=].

reena said...

how ironic today i just have been in deep thought. about my friends out of my immediate circle. more so like friends from college. i just been feeling like some type of chaufer or bus boy lately. im a real loyal person, as well i so to take friends serious. but these friends of mine seem to only call when they want something. im just really thinking bout kicking them to the curb. its like the only people that are true and know you, and i feel comfortable around is my peeps around the way that i grew up wit. but like wise i want people in my corner that are making moves just like me. friends from the block aint making to much moves but, the bench. dig!!! and there is way more to life than just that. but i love them, i can let my hair down when iam around them. if i cant have real people around me i rather have no one at all.

tiaswagger said...

Man if you read my myspace (www.myspace.com/tiagurl04) you will see that i talk about me being a loyal ass friend,that ish can be taken advantage of seriosly,i'm from detroit but i live in cali and people in cali think i'm being mean when i say that i have my group of friends and i aint pushing to make anymore,but its true,when you find people you can trust and that you love as much as you love family or yourself you feel blessed and i surely aint pressed for too many more friends because you have to watch who you call friends,thats exactly why some people make the "associates" list because the person you dealin wit is prolly cool every now and then but got some issues that you aint willing to attach yourself to,so teyana thats why people say "associates" more often then friends,i would rather say associates then just go throwing the word "friend" around losely,it takes alot to be a good friend and if you are not one to me then you must be deleted lol. but i feel you totally girlie

misscooki3lips said...

yupp tell em. 'friendsz' only got you for party and gigglesz but when it comesz down to the word, they be out in a flash. dasz why you cant trust much people because some people flip themselves over liek coinsz all two face and shxt. they hate on it all-they hate on the originality, TRUE beauty, love, friendship, respect and much more. but we cant pay mind to these hatersz all we gotta do isz laugh and still fly. dasz wat i do EVERYSINGLEDAYOFMYLIFE. nd im GOOD. cusz im coming up nd they aint nowhere in sight for the future. peace nd much love, Teyana- my celebrity twin, lol.

-COOKiE over nd OUT.

Beautyishername said...

to me a friend is sumbody u know u can count on that have yo back no matter what. like sumbody u dont have to worry about them eyeing yo man. as u hang wit people tho u can usually figure out their motives. and sumtimes its hard bcuz they might act like they got ya back but they just waiting to see u fall. thats why u cant call everybody yo friend. so i keeps my circle at a minimum. n everybody else is associates. people i may have small talk wit but nuthin more.

Deon Jatu said...

Associate or a Hi and Bye type human, not a FRIEND. You hit the nail over the head with that! Me personally i have friends that are in the church and love God as much as I do. I only have 3 REAL FRIENDS that i can call on no matter what. Thats the type of people i get down with. All those fakes and phonies can pack it and kick rocks. Like i tell them, im on a mission to be the biggest R&B/Pop sensation ever.

Hit me up Teyana,
myspace.com/deon_turner
Dueces,
Deon=Teen Vice President!

David said...

Hmmm This is a good one. You know what's funny. I was never the popular guy; but, I always had a great circle of friends. Anywho people sometimes popular people, and all would label me their
"friend", and I be thinking like I don't know you like that, hang out with you like that, or even talk to you like that to be your friend. BTW, this is all tied into school life (high school, and all). And i'm like I barely talk to you in school, let alone outside of school, so how are we friends?, lol. And people be like what you doing this weekend, that I clearly don't know or care for, and I just be thinking, don't u have friends? ain't u popular? Why r u asking me about my business? And I guess I was the funny, smart, reserved/laid back person, with a great sense of style, and personality, so, that attracted people to me. But, anywhoo this is how I see it, just like u said ur either friends or not. But, I did have labels for the types of friendships/relationships back then

Associates: People u say hi, and bye to, or have small talk with, share minor common interest; but, don't talk to like that outside of the place u see them the most (like school, work, or whatever)

Friends: People u cool with, you talk to them a great amount of time, share common interest, but, u may not connect/flow with them on that level of a best friend. Like u can't call/talk to them about everything; but, somethings

Best Friends: You go out with them all the time, text them, call them, im them, email them, everything. You can talk to them about anything. They always got your back. Yall share alot of common interest, and they just connect with you in that way. They give to you, and you give to them without caring if you get something back in return. And you never feel uncomfortable around them, and when you get into a fight with them, you get over it, and resolve the problem cause you value your friendship

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Star said...

I use the word associate alot because I don't really have much friends besides my immediate family my grandma and my great aunt. An associate is someone I talk to and sometimes hang out with but, I never talk to them about personal things that I would do with friends. I used to have a problem with trusting people to soon, thinking they were my friends but they weren't, they smiled in my face and talked about me behind my back. I dealt with alot of users I was there for them when they needed me, but they weren't there when I needed them. Maybe some of my associates actually are my friends but I'm not sure about calling them my friends because of my trust issue. Its hard for me to say NO too I'm just so giving. Associate that sounds so persnickidy.

LOVE

jamalbrbr said...

teyana i dont have a lot of friends because in philly friends are you worst enemies i am gay and a lot of other gay people do noty like me for 1 reason or the other so i can say i have like 4 friend forreal!!!!!

Carmen Sandiego said...

I MUST ask what your zodiac sign is, because you sound like a Capricorn..LOL. I'm a Cap and I'm the same way when it comes to friends. Not so much as I used to be, because I've been betrayed by some ppl which made me realize you can't trust everyone, just like everyone isn't gonna be your friend. But I will make people feel comfortable. I guess that's my Southern Hospitality...LOL

I've had to get tougher tho, cuz ppl will definitely take your kindness for weakness and leave u with nothing. And I had to crack down on ppl after being betrayed by one of my best friends about a year ago. I came out about my sexuality to my closest friends, which to me was a big risk because I expected most of them to walk away from me, but luckily they didn't. This one particular friend said she wouldn't love me any less, especially when I had been there for her throughout her dramatic pregnancy and such (she had a bit of a Maury "You are/are not the father" type thing goin on, but I didn't judge her once). Well about 6 months later, I found out she snitched to my mom about how she was worried about me & how maybe my mom should pull me outta the college I was attending. My mom told me the girl told her & was all "Please don't be mad at her! She's one of the best friends you have!" I said I wasn't mad, but I knew right then & there that I couldn't fuck with her no more. And things have not been the same. I have seen her, but not by choice. She's kinda like a family friend, and I have no probs w/her family or her daughter or anything, but I can't trust or respect u after doing something like that.


And the associate thing... We used to say this all the time in middle school (can't believe that was like 10 years ago!!). "She's not my friend, she's just an associate." It may seem silly, but to me it means, that's just somebody you see and you speak to and that's about it. Ya'll don't really hang out, and they definitely don't know that much about you and vice versa.

And you'll also find some "friends" who are jealous of you or that try to compete with you, otherwise known as "frenemies." Usually happens w/females, but I know my cousin & his homeboy they've been cool basically since birth, and as they got older headin to college his friend started tryin to compete with him. Still does actually. I don't understand how you can be friends that way, but whatever...

hyhy said...

what you said is true... often, people come to you to wrong when they see that you are different from them. they are close in their visions of things, and start has criticize you, to hate you... the real friends are those who accept you as you are, just vous. it is all.

hyhy said...

what you said is true... often, people come to you to wrong when they see that you are different from them. they are close in their visions of things, and start has criticize you, to hate you... the real friends are those who accept you as you are, just vous. it is all.

Tiana_Orig>kid doll said...

thats word yo...friends is mad major but thats not something you can throw around an call everybody....when i lived i new york i had 2 real friends now that i live in baltimore it aint the same cause i didnt grow up with these people so u know they already got they people but i have a lil crew but we all so different its weird an i really stick out cause of the way iam but i mean they still say they love me an they accept other people im cool with because i just cant stay secluded cause im soo nice an i dnt judge people for what they do cause thats not my business but yeah i guess i will see if they are my true friends when we all split and go to college

SneakerHead said...

Amen to you! Thanks for realizing this! I only have but one true friend, and you may have so many people you claim friends, but in life you'll only have but one or two good ones and the rest is acquaintance's and so on...I know what you mean, when I meet someone, I gotta make them feel comfy, because I wouldn't wanna feel left out...even though it happens to me a lot...but oh well...! I never had a circle of friends, I just knew people in high school and what not, bu never hung with em or kick it real heavy like that! Just like my parents say, everyone isn't your friend, some can be backstabbing bafoons and all of that...I'm not with it. My bestfriend is myself, because atleast I understand where I'm coming from, when no one else can. I have the upmost respect for you just because.....keep postin...cuz your blogs are interesting....

The Misfit said...

Yeah its good that you take friendship that seriouly I lost more than half of my friends because I wanted to do the right thing and make something of myself, instead of partying and smoking weed and all that other stuff like life is just a big party, so right now I dont even need a circle I have one friend that faithful and loyal to me and helps me make the right decisions, so much Love To You Teyana, and your "Circle"

ABOUT ME said...

it's so true, nas also puts it best, on his untitled album he has verse, on testify "you buy my songs, but will you ride with me" true friends or "ride or die" people are gems.

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JapaneseBlossom said...

I have one bestfriend. I use to have two but the other girl was just a liar, undercover hater, envious all of that. She was just destruction. But me and my current bestfriend have been friends since the 7th grade and we are currently freshmen in college. I love her to death and I would do anything for her and I know she would do the same for me. I totally agree with your blog and I can't wait for my Bestie to come back home for the holidays.