Sunday, September 7, 2008

No Matter How Hard U Try U Cant Escape The Hate..




I FEEL BLESSED ON THIS SUNDAY AFTER THE STORM LITERALLY, THAT RAIN WAS SUMTHIN ELSE....SMH..LOL

HATE, JEALOUSLY, ENVY IS SUMTHIN THAT NOT JUS CELEBRITIES DEAL WITH, IT GOES ON IN THE LIVES OF EVERDAY PEOPLE. FOR THE LIFE OF ME TIL THIS DAY I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE LOVE TO TAKE JEALOUS JABS AT PEOPLE WHO ARE COMING UP IN LIFE AND THAT ARE SUCCESSFUL. AS MUCH LOVE AS I GET, AND THAT LOVE I APPRECIATE SO MUCH CUZ IT OVER POWERS THE HATE I STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE NAYSAYERS, AND NEGATIVE CRITICS. SOME SAY REAL HURTFUL THINGS THAT CAN BRING YOU TO TEARS AT TIMES, AND IT MAY BE THE WAY OF THE WORLD ESPECIALLY WITH THE LINE OF WORK IM IN, BUT ITS STILL WRONG...
BACK HOME IN HARLEM I WAS THIS SKATER GIRL WHO DANCED AT A LOCAL YOUTH CENTER, I WAS GETTIN LOVE OUT IN THOSE HARLEM STREETS AT THAT TIME WHEN I WAS JUS REGULAR TEYANA, AND DONT GET IT TWISTED I STILL DO BABY.LOL.. MO-BARZ TELLS ME ALL THE TIME THAT IN HIS EYES, AND OTHER PEOPLES EYES IM THE BEST THING TO COME OUT OF HARLEM SINCE MASE. THAT MADE ME THINK, PEOPLE CAN SAY WAT THEY WANT ABOUT THAT MAN BUT HE WAS THE BREATH FOR HARLEM, HE PAVED THE WAY AND ASSISTED IN SOME OF HARLEMS NOTORIETY AS FAR AS MUSIC, AND LIFE OF A PERSON FROM THIS REGION. WAT HE EMBODIED WAS EVERYTHING THAT REPRESENTED A PERSON FROM H-WORLD, HE GOT LOVE ALL OVER THE WORLD PEOPLE WOULD SEE MASE AND LITERALLY PASS OUT, THEY SHUT DOWN MALLS FOR HIM. PEOPLE MUCH OLDER THAN ME ALWAYS TELL ME HE GOT LOVE EVERYWHERE BUT WHEN IT CAME TO HIS HOME HE HAD TO DEAL WITH A LOT OF ENVY, AND IT HURTS WHEN SITUATIONS LIKE THAT HAPPENS BECAUSE U EXPECT YOUR HOME TO SUPPORT YOU BEFORE ANYONE..
HARLEM IS A VERY COMPETITIVE PLACE WE ALL HAVE OUR SWAG, STYLE, WE JUST DO THINGS WITH OUR OWN INGRIDIENTS THATS WAT MAKES US SO POTENT. SOME PEOPLE SEE IT AS A BIG FASHION SHOW,BEST FRIENDS TRY TO OUT DRESS EACH OTHER, THEY HAVE TO HAVE THE BETTER LOOKINNG BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND. THIS GOES FOR PLACES EVERYWHERE BECAUSE WE ALL HAVE HATE PROBLEM IN ALL CITIES RACISM ALSO. I JUST ENCOURAGE MY YOUNG PEOPLE TO LET HATRED GO THRU ONE EAR AND OUT OF THE OTHA. IF U HAVE DREAMS AND GOALS U BETTER PURSUE THOSE GOALS TIL THE END OF TIME, AND IF ALONG THE WAY PEOPLE TALKIN SOME JEALOUSY ISH, JUST GIVE IT A "GIGGLE" THATS WAT I DO.LOL.. IF UR A FAN, WELL MY FANS ARE MY FRIENDS BUT IF YOU LOVE TEYANA TAYLOR AND U ADMIRE WAT I DO, I NEED YOU TO LIVE BY MY CODE GET OUT HERE AND STRIVE!! DONT WORK HARD ENUFF JUS TO PASS THE CLASS AIM FOR THAT PERFECT SCORE,GET OFF YA ASS AND DO SUMTHIN WITH YA LIFE. I WANNA SEE ALL MY PEOPLE AT THE TOP.ITS SUNDAY I HAD TO GIVE A SERMON,(LOL) BUT I REALLY MEAN IT. PEOPLE OUT HERE PLAYIN FOR KEEPS, AND WHERE IM FROM FOR SOME STRANGE REASON ESPECIALLY WHEN IT GETS SUPER HOT TEENS ARE GETTIN SHOT LEFT & RIGHT, ITS LIKE SOMEONE HOPPED OUTTA TRUCK ONE DAY AND STARTED PASSIN OUT GUNS TO ALL THESE YOUNG PEOPLE. I GOT A CALL FROM MO WHILE I WAS AT AN EVENT, JUST THIS PASS FRIDAY A 13 YEAR OLD WAS SHOT IN THE BACK, HE WAS A BYSTANDER IN SOME SHOOTOUT..13?? LIKE COME ON.. PEOPLE OUT HERE BUGGIN THE HELL OUT. U NEVER KNO WHEN GOD IS GONNA FLIP YA SWITCH SO PLEASE GET OUT HERE AND BECOME SUCCESFUL, AND DONT GET SIDE TRACKED BY HIM, OR HER, OR THEM, CUZ ONCE GOD FLIPS THAT SWITCH ITS NO
"GIMMIE ONE MORE CHANCE", ITS OVA!!!
I LOVE YOU GUYS HAVE A BLESSED SUNDAY...IF YOUR IN N.Y OR SURROUNDING AREAS ITS FASHION WEEK DOWN IN TIMES SQUARE 42ND STREET INSIDE BRYANT PARK, COME CHECK IT OUT...LOVE PEACE & HAIR GREASE....

35 comments:

DimeDivaBrittany said...

Hey Teyanna it Bittany, I fell you all the way with this Blog thats just how people are, I used to ask myself all the time why are there so many haters out there!!! But now i just learn how to cope with it.

J.Henry said...

Boo...I L♥VE you to death!!!!! Good words of wisdom..and from a woman so youthful! Continue to do YOU babe....peoples negative thoughts don't make you, YOU! The success you bring to yourself and home is what makes you YOU!

Keep up the work...know that if no one elses L♥VEs you GOD does...and so do I! =)

L♥VE, J.Henry

The_Miracle said...

Haters are here to serve a purpose...To keep you motivated. You can allow them to break you down or you can flip it and make it positive to help you keep pushin. I love wakin up to see the disgust in a haters face...It lets me know Im on the right route. You can luv me or hate me baby...the choice is yours!

kbaby7731 said...

thats crazy about the 13 year old ma! but damn... i feel u about the haters. fuck them! u are gorgeous as hell & successfull. i aspire to be like you when i get older.

love always, lala♥

J.D. said...

I feel you on this blog post. People nowadays don't respect the grind and envy breeds jealousy and haters. Keep doin you.

J.D.
hiphopupdate.blogspot.com

Vanna Black said...

Morning Chica!It can be very hurtful when people hate on u or people u care about/admire, but I remember they hated on Jesus Christ, and that thought alone helps me keep pushin on.I am a very dope person in my own right, but when certain people don't see the world as I do, no lye, I treat em' with a giggle! :)

BiG MeGz91 said...

Teyana this blog is s0 true their are s0 many hater's that's dying t0 be sumbody other dhen theirselves.....lyke wtf....lolz....but lyke about tha killin ish....where im 4rm in jersey city itz lyke bagdhad...4real 4real....one ov my friends was 15 nd got shot in dha head in feb....dhen 6months(sept) later his right handz got killed.....itz really gettin crazy out here....if yu aint wit ah street ent...or ah gang itz lyke yu have n0 point in lyfe but me I aviod tha gang ish cuz that aint cool lyke most young teens around my hood pregnat or they already got babys nd I aint tryna go out lyke dhat....I aint mean t0 get deep on this comment but I juss had mad ish on my mind yu feelz me

Fresh gurl megz
K00l kidz 2/5

Random ish said...

yoo the way you write is so nice lol.. Nah but its the truth ppl compete so much.. like I live downtown and I be in harlem.. and like ppl try to out show each other.. like 2 weeks ago I was @ a event on 136 and st.nick and there was girls out there w/ bootie shirts and bras.. For what? to draw attention? bull shit..

rayviebabiie82 said...

yea this was your best blog, not only that it was real. we all n0ticed these thinqs but we never to0k it seri0usly. Y0u remind me 0f me...like im y0ung and crazy as eff y0u cee kay but im als0 like a m0ther...ii qive advice and ii strive f0r a chanqe and try t0 c0nvince and persuade my friends and 0thers t0 d0 RIGHT and RIGHT will c0me back t0 y0u. Have m0rals and q0als and y0u life will be so0o 0rqanized. Jeal0usy is a sin and y0u and ii b0th kn0w if 0ur "haters" were in 0ur p0siti0n and was f0rtunate like we are they w0uldn't c0mplain...why?...because they are happy and 0thers aren't.

Chain Smoker said...

Wow this was a good blog i can tottally agree because its the same way everywhere exspecially here in L.A. Everyone whats to out do each other,"have the better looking boyfriends" , and wanna be in the lime light because the other persons in it or there bestfriends and tries to out do them.....by for this was the best blog

nelly1 said...

Hey Teyana, this is one of your biggest fans Chanelle. I just wanted to say im really feelin everything your sayin. All those other people who have negative comments are just people who have nothing better to do or are just too afraid to try something new, and to see some1 else actually following thier dreams and is becoming successful is just something else in their way i guess. I couldn't honestly tell you, but yea there are alot of people supporting you me being one of them. anyway this is a dumb long comment lol. but just showin love.

stay strong and keep doin everything your doin cuz its Dope lol

one of ur biggest supporters
Chanelle Kirlew
17/ brooklyn

Leeeeeeee said...

its good to have a positive voice for the young people.. not just young people.. for everyone. because theres older people that need to practice what you just preached. you'd think "grown" people knew better about hate and not letting it get to them. or knew better about hating on someone that has made it. we are all trying to make it.. some people cant stand that they havent made it so they try to bring someone else down to make their own lime light seem brighter. ha.. sometimes it works.. but not without a negative outcome.. they dont realize that though..

let me stop "preaching" you keep doing you're thing. you've been given more gifts than one. i'll be rooting for you Ms Taylor. =]

abeautifuldisaster said...

I FEELIN WHAT YOUR SAYIN FOR REAL..I LIVE IN UPSTATE NY AND PEOPLE IN MY HOOD DIE EVFERYDAY OVER BULLSHIT..PEOPLE LET THE STREETS TAKE HOLD OF THEM WHEN THEY CAN BE SOOO MUCH MORE...AS FAR AS PEOPLE SAYIN NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT YOU FUCK THEM...THEY JUST WANNA BE IN YOUR SHOES...YOU ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL!!!!


AS THE MASE THING GOES..HE WAS GREAT ARTIST AND I LIKED HIM BUT NOW I DONT REALLY RESPECT HIM BECAUSE U CANT BE A PASTOR PREACHING ABOUT GOD LEADING OTHER LIVES THEN START RAPPING AGAIN REPRESENTING SOMETHING YOU REALLY REPRESENT ANYMORE...DONT U THINK THATS TWISTED??

*KYLA*

rene_the_super_producer said...

thatz real what u talkin about and i agree wit what u sayin....4 get the haterz because at the end u still gon be u and do what u do...i wanna be like u when i grow up..lolz

-Rene : The Super Producer

Jazzell Williams said...

ROCKSTARS ROCK
WE DOPE.. FORGET THE HATERS.. THE ONLY MAKE US MROE FAMOUS!!OWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!
I FEEL EVERYTHING YOU SAYING. YOU TRY TO GET SOMEWHERE AND WIITH ALL THE LOVE COMES A LITTLE HATE BUT WHATEVER.SMH .. THEY'RE LOSERS SO THEY GET MAD WHEN THEY SEE SOMEONE WINNING DO YOU IT GOT YOU THIS FArr!!!!!... "CANT NOBODY TAKE YA STRIDE. CANT NOBODY HOLD YOU DOWN. OH NOO!!!!!! YOU GOTTA KEEP IT MOVIN!!!!"..
HEY T!
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Jazzell Williams said...

OKAY YEHA I MAD SPELLED MY OWN BLOG WRONG.. THATS A SHAME LOL

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BTW.. TELL THE NAY SAYERS I SAID:HI HATER!IM GLAD YOU SEE ME!

SpiFFSter said...

You Know...
I thought this blog was necessary...not only about he hate thing but about how we need to push the youth to get up and accomplish dreams and stop the violence!!!
Kudos Teyana!!!
Remember kids are going to be the bulk of your fans (Adults and teens too) So definitely hit up the Nickelodoen, Cartoon Network and Disney! The other day my cousin went on you myspace and was so fascinated with you!!! Imagine being on those channels and little kids singing "Google Me"!!! I wish you all the Luck and success!

Krystle said...

Great blog Teyana! An issue that definitely needs to be addressed. I'm sure you've had your share of haters. Hell we all have. I've even had haters and naysayers in my own damn family, mainly because I attended a white college instead of an HBCU. But here I am, 4 years later with my college degree!! So the haters definitely keep u motivated. This whole blog reminds me of this Katt Williams skit. You've probably seen it, but it's worth watching like everyday!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sp7NiPOcGbs

Star said...

Hey Teyana you are so educated. I understand exactly where your coming from. Your beautiful, and very talented DUH, haterz are gonna hate because your doing your thing. Don't let what they say get to you, I know it may be hard sometimes, but some people will always have someting negative to say because they hate to see you succeed. I think it's so funny when it's grown a** people hating on kids. I deal with jealosy, and hate I don't know why. Some of my female cousins and aunts don't like me, and I never did anything to them but be nice. You would think they would be happy for me graduating high school, and going to college but their not SMH sorry then LMAO.

Mase was cool in all but he became a paster and then went back to rapping again that was different.

LOVE

KaleenaC said...

LOL...You knw how there are so so, so many haytas out here in the world that it is kind of getting to certain but yet ALOT OF PPL that knw of you but dont knw you, or probably havent even tlkd to you...so instead of making the haters feel they have a need to hate on you, or anybody else, just think of it as if you were there manager...YOU HIRE HATERS AND PAY THEM NO ATTENTION...at the end of the day not only are you getting the paycheck, but you also get more and more fans that care for YOU, and they could careless about what the "HAYTAS" have to say...and pretty soon those haters become your biggest FANS...1love, 1life, 1heart -Kaleena

Milt-fresh_best-dressed said...

Yo keep doin ya thing, I feel you on the hater tip. But personally I just feel we as a people need to get right with ourselves. Like I say everyday, its people out here who are scared to look themselves in the mirror. It's easy to size up somebody else life, because it isn't your own. But, when you look at yourself, what you find may be a more hideous sight than what you were critisizing. keep doin ya thing Ms. Taylor. Keep it FuZz!

Jamie said...

That's right girl. I dealt with people saying things about me all the time because of jealously. I'm sure they're talking still behind my back but, I brush it off. I had some people that didn't even show up to my wedding because of jealousy.

ShAWnY!! said...

hey girl, i be on alot of theses sites and a lot of these people act like they just hate u. i be wonderin why they think that way i mean ur pretty u can sing, rap, dance, and u got a lot of style. Im like why yall hate her?? I came to an conclusion, they're just jealous and u got a lot of haters!! im glad u dont let them get 2 u! u have nothin to worry about because u have a lot of die hard fans and im one of them! i will support u idc wat mediatakeout be sayin Lol i love wat ur sayin about how ppl be trippin in harlem tryna out do each other and kids gettin shot all willy nilly its crazy its like that in some places in miami too. i feel u girl!

Gia Shakur said...

You know I see you all the time in the hood I live on Lenox. I know Mo. I can honestly say I never see you on sum stuck up shit I seen u by your delf a couple of times. I dont know who hating but they must be lames. They tight cuz they sneaker game aint up to par and you a sneaker "ho" (all love). But u get love on 140 145 and wherever my crew roll.

(Note: That was my peoples cousin that got shot on Friday afternoon thanx for giving him a shout out)

SneakerFee said...

read this blog at boring ass work today its real spit yamean!

haters needa listen and stop hating so much cause you cant file that shit on ya taxes and ya damn shoo cant get employed to do it! it aint a job yet!

acknowledge a hater and tell kiss ya kicks!

s.fee

SneakerFee said...

www.sneakerslut.blogspot.com

read that! cool as blog not like the other whacksones around

ims0fly417 said...

I LOVE haters! They make me progress and do extra better then what I've already done! SO like J. Henry..keep doing YOU!

jaztwo3 said...

Good blog T, I see friends slowly stopping education, quitting courses to a better future, having babies young.. for nothing.
I think everyone should have an ambition, you can't just go through life without one. what would be the point? Give yourself a challenge! I'm not just saying this because i'm ok, its cos i generally feel like everyone should be strivin to be the best they can be! Why wouldn't you wanna try your best to get where you wanna be?
I totally feel what your saying and its cool to have someone like you who can get this point across to loadsa ppl in the world.
Anutha thing 'what goes around comes around' my lifes motto, karma is the best thing you can believe in, be positive and positivity will come back to you. As soon as your down on life thats when people can get to you!

Keep smiling ;)
Jaz - Lancs, England

mesha713 said...

teyana..u have brains! i didnt know that, no offense lol

David said...

I actually read this, lol. No offense, sometimes I don't read blogs. But, anyways. You have a great perspective on things, and a great outlook on life. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, and have your eye on your future with a big success nothing; but, a block away. I know of the whole different thing. I'm not sure if u stated it in this blog or the other ones, cause I just read like 4 of them, and my mind is not functioning the placement of those right, lol. But, I was always different like with my style of taste. And I would want to wear things; but, I would never buy/get or wear it cause I was afraid of what people might think. But, eventually I grew out of it, and said F it, this is me, hate it or love it. Then, people start saying "Dang David where u get that from, "You can Dress your ass off", and that influenced me to be me, and stay true to myself, and style, and never be afraid to be me, and try different things. Now, people try to joc my style, and ask me for tips on what to wear. Crazy world ain't it?, lol

Penelope M. Johnson said...

Yo...I'm SOOOOO Glad that you spoke about the 13 year old that got killed on friday(RIP Scotty!!)I was wondering when someone with a little status was gonna say something about it. He got killed on 144th.....ONE BLOCK form the National Action Network Headquaters...but where the hell was AL Sharpton??? He wasnt there to offer condolences after the fact or anything. I'm gonna post a blog about it....check it out!
Later Teyana!

Nee said...

hey teyanna i have vital info take this where ever you go ... haters make you stronger and they only can attack the self conscienceness we all have in the back of our minds believe in self cus if you don't no one else will

Cat Hill said...

U can say that again...that's why I love my Hi Hater, bye Hater shirt...lol...I can't believe u finally got a blog I a fan.

The Misfit said...

Yeah no lie Teyana, people say I done change casue I dont chill in the hood no more with the same people sitting on the bench not doing anything with themselves. Im trying to make moves and do something constructive with my life and for the first time ever Im thinking about college. Now people say I changed, but I see my friends out here smoking and having babies and I see exactly how I dont want to live. I say hi to the old people I used to talk to and they look and my face and dont say anything, but its all good. In some ways I guess you cant escape the hate and from anybody I would think it would be my own people that I grew up with that would be proud of me the most, but I guess I was wrong. Keep your head up Teyana your making major moves.

J.LOUIE DA DUKE said...

"Fuck Da Haterz" Do what you Do, You and your Crew